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Stephen L. Carter, the acclaimed author of The Culture of Disbelief proves to readers that manners matter to the future of America. says, “Civility represents the sum of all the sacrifices that one makes in a democracy for the sake of living a common life.”
Listen to Carter speak at Yale on the topic:
Is Civility Important? from Yale Law School on Vimeo.
Now the reason I say sports is one of the last places I am seeing civility isn't because people are not at odds, but yet they play hard and still try to get along after the game and during the game by respecting each other.
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My first job out of college was for a small daily newspaper. The media which are the ones reporting what is happening in America are protected by the 1st Amendment, yet due to so many financial changes are a fraction of the size they once were to cover our country, yet in the same time our country's population has grown.
I watched as predominately Baptist fundamentalist organized to be The Moral Majority and attach themselves to the Republican party. I would sit in small groups in churches through the years and it was assumed that you were Republican if you were part of the church, because many didn't see them as separate, but the same.
In past presidential debates the candidates took their turns more than today, where they talked over each other and the moderators. This is only a reflection of how we as a society talk to each other today.
I applaud Andy Stanley's message not that long ago to his church about the election. Listen for yourself:
I think Stanley's points around the scripture are what can help us restore civility to our public discourse.
Matthew 22:36-4036 “Teacher, what is the most important commandment in the Law?”37 Jesus answered:Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. 38 This is the first and most important commandment. 39 The second most important commandment is like this one. And it is, “Love others as much as you love yourself.” 40 All the Law of Moses and the Books of the Prophets are based on these two commandments.
I think those who are not Christians could also live by some of the guidelines that Stanley points out. I love how he encourages you to share your opinion and even argue your point. However this is where I think his wisdom from the scripture would help reunite America. We should not make our points at the expense of undermining our influence.
The Great Unfriending
This weekend I unfriended a few more people because they crossed that line. They jeopardized their relationship with me. I don't doubt I have probably done something to someone in my life to do the same.
This election cycle will most likely be remembered by many as the time so many of us unfriended someone in social media.
No matter your political position be careful that you don't jeopardize a relationship or the ability to have influence in your industry.
In my faith we believe that Jesus died in order to demonstrate how much God wanted to restore the relationship. We believe there is nothing one can do that God would not forgive in order to restore a relationship. The only thing we believe that can break this relationship is man's rejection of God's olive leaf.
As business people we should live this out in our business. We should be trying to recover customers and doing all we can to keep the ones we have.Revelation 3:2020 Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.
We should speak up when we disagree with a client. We should argue our point with them. However, as Andy Stanley reminds us don't do any of this at the risk of losing your influence or jeopardizing the relationship.
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By living out Matthew 22:36-40 you will be the most confident, curious, composed, compassionate people in the room.